2008年10月4日

3 days and 2 nights

本週是育成人員培訓課程的最後一週

禮拜五下班後

開著車就往台中出發去 展開三天兩夜的小旅行

先是到禮宏家 把我從新竹買的鹽水鴨拿過去後

我就在直接去赴一個很重要的約

我國中時最好的朋友覃世芳

有天和她真的很難得在msn上遇到

剛好 她今天是休假日 我也是要先下來台中

明天早上上課也才來得及到南屯區


台中 真是一個很棒的都市

這也是為我會自願到台中去上課

雖然我到台北上課我會更方便

因為台中有我兄弟 呂禮宏 她媽媽 他好笑的妹妹呂佳臻 吃不完的美食 看不完卻又不敢怎樣的正妹

現在 我又找到了一個重要的因素

就是我這位重要的國中同學

小時候 就是喜歡和她混在一起

整天都是在鬥嘴

她永遠都和我坐在很附近的座位

真的很像是哥哥妹妹 姊姊弟弟般

畢業後 我就離開了那所學校

出去外面念省立的高中

而她是繼續留在那所學校的高中部

聯絡

恩 後來幾乎是兩三年見一次面吧

我記得最後一次見到她 應該是我大一

這次見面 又是四五年後了

她已經變成了一個正式的獸醫醫生了 還是分院長喔

現在和她的妹妹一起住 因為她妹妹現在升東海一年級


覃醫生的個性真的都沒變

一樣是一個好好人

我們晚上去吃鼎王

雖然等到九點半才吃飯

但鼎王真是有夠好吃的

真的很推薦喔

然後 也很高興 她仍是和她大一就認識的男友還一直都在一起

她說不想結婚 ㄏㄏ 我現在想一想 我覺得他們是結定了啦

我會祝福他們的

不論如何

昨晚是非常非常滿足的一晚

聊了很多天 對彼此目前的現況 兩人也是給予對方最大的祝福

我想好好保護好妳能照顧的人跟事物

這是一種責任 是一種愛

對身邊的人 對家人 對朋友

這樣就是愛


well...

明天還有最後一天

我就上完了育成人員培訓課程的基礎班

說實話 我還是都不太懂

但卻在這樣的機會下

我已逐漸的開啟了我的第二道門

認識了很多中部地區的朋友
















這是呂禮宏和她妹妹呂佳臻的照片

羨慕他有個妹妹

不錯

和這兩人 我相信我們未來20 30年

都還會繼續下去吧

























最後 放上一首歌

是我最近喜歡上的一首歌

james morrison應該已經蠻多人都已經認識了

號稱是rod的接班人唷

第二張專輯真的有聽起來他的聲音更活的了

這首歌叫做

save yourself


歌詞

I'm trying to change
to make the best, for us
But I'm just the same
same as I ever was

Oh and if you stay with me
honestly it's what I want
But if you stay with me
I know I'll hurt you more

So won't you save, save yourself
by leaving me now
For someone else
if I'm crying out
don't listen to it
It's only my heart
save yourself
it's only my heart
Oh no

So tell me I'm wrong
please won't you change, my mind
This loves so intense
sometimes it can lead, you blind

Oh and if you stay with me
honestly it's what I want
But if you stay with me
I know I'll hurt you more

So won't you save, save yourself
by leaving me now
For someone else
if I'm crying out
don't listen to it
It's only my heart
save yourself
It's only my heart
save yourself

And I don't want to let you go
But I know
that it's the right thing to do baby
And I don't think I'm that strong
to say goodbye
I don't wanna see you cry

So won't you save, save yourself
by leaving me now
For someone else
if I'm crying out
don't listen to it
It's only my heart
save yourself

2008年10月1日

最近的一些情緒趕快消失吧

這邊

本來有大概一百行不好看的文字吧

但在我剛剛洗好澡後

我都刪掉了

想大概是我這人天性還算善良吧

well~我要說的是

今天跟別人共事,不管誰求於誰,或誰對誰錯

我知道我們都有一個目標想要去達成

但怎麼選擇走到那條路

是要一路都在那邊自己一個人獨大,還是甚麼事都好好說,虛心說

自己想想吧

有沒有用不好的態度對待身邊的朋友 親人 同事呢


我今天爆發有好處

因為我不需要再被一種別人的影響,再去干擾我工作的節奏

我很樂觀

我是Mr.Brightside

我看世界是亮的

這種東西,我選擇不會再去裡

倚老賣老 自以為的人

最近的一些情緒趕快消失吧

井水你自己慢慢流吧

Incubus-Drive

歌詞

Sometimes, I feel the fear of uncertainty stinging clear
And I can't help but ask myself how much I let the fear
Take the wheel and steer
It's driven me before
And it seems to have a vague, haunting mass appeal
But lately I'm beginning to find that I
Should be the one behind the wheel

Whatever tomorrow brings, I'll be there
With open arms and open eyes yeah

Whatever tomorrow brings, I'll be there
I'll be there

So if I decide to waiver my chance to be one of the hive
Will I choose water over wine and hold my own and drive?
It's driven me before
And it seems to be the way that everyone else gets around
But lately I'm beginning to find that
When I drive myself my light is found

Whatever tomorrow brings, I'll be there
With open arms and open eyes yeah

Whatever tomorrow brings, I'll be there
I'll be there

Would you choose water over wine
Hold the wheel and drive

Whatever tomorrow brings, I'll be there
With open arms and open eyes yeah

Whatever tomorrow brings, I'll be there
I'll be there

2008年9月30日

Ace of Base - Beautiful Life




歌詞

You can do what you want just seize the day
What you're doing tomorrow's gonna come your way
Don't you ever consider givin' up, you will find, oooh

It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
I just wanna be here beside you
stay until the break of dawn

Take a walk in the park when you feel down
There's so many things there
that's gonna lift you up
See the nature in bloom a laughing child
Such a dream, oooh

It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
I just wanna be here beside you
I just wanna be here beside you
stay until the break of dawn

You're looking for somewhere to belong
You're standing all alone
for someone to guide you on your way
Now and Forever

It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
I just wanna be anybody

Living in different ways
It's a beautiful life
I'm gonna take you to a place I've never been
before oh yeah
It's a beautiful life
I'm gonna take you in my arms and fly away
with you tonight

It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo

It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life, oh oh ooo
It's a beautiful life

2008年9月29日

without

談過的戀愛,就不該忘記

我們都是一樣

感情,雖說是人類自己創造出的情緒

"為何分手會痛,為何告白叫做開心"


分手後才知道

才知道這是叫感情

還在想辦法爬過這道高牆

亦或想說乾脆不爬了

時間要常要短,不太重要

我知道

讓我說出"嫁給我"的那個對象,仍會是我的答案

"won't go home without you" by maroon 5 ......this song is for you




歌詞

I asked her to stay but she wouldn't listen
She left before I had the chance to say
Oh
The words that would mend the things that were broken
But now it's far too late, she's gone away

Every night you cry yourself to sleep
Thinking: "Why does this happen to me?
Why does every moment have to be so hard?"
Hard to believe that

It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you

The taste of your breath, I'll never get over
The noises that she made kept me awake
Oh
The weight of things that remained unspoken
Built up so much it crushed us everyday

Every night you cry yourself to sleep
Thinking: "Why does this happen to me?
Why does every moment have to be so hard?"
Hard to believe that

It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you

It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you

Of all the things I felt but never really shown
Perhaps the worst is that I ever let you go
I should not ever let you go, oh oh oh

It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you

It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
And I won't go home without you
And I won't go home without you
And I won't go home without you

2008年9月24日

稻香

基本上

這是首勵志歌

聽起來整個很有「周杰倫」的感覺

整個調調、編曲都沒有大太的變化

應該會有很多人批評是沒進步吧?

不過我是覺得還OK

聽起來周先生有點裝年輕的感覺

裡面的歌詞:

笑一個吧 功成名就不是目的

讓自己快樂快樂 這才叫做意義


人呀

總是容易患得患失,一下子怕得不到,一下子怕整個失去

回歸到夢想的初衷

把以前拼命的原動力找出來

人生才會快樂呀!

當然,在此之前錢要先賺夠

周杰倫 - 稻香

歌詞

對這個世界如果你有太多的抱怨
跌倒了就不敢繼續往前走
為什麼人要這麼的脆弱 墮落
請你打開電視看看
多少人為生命在努力勇敢的走下去
我們是不是該知足
珍惜一切 就算沒有擁有

還記得你說家是唯一的城堡 隨著稻香河流繼續奔跑
微微笑 小時候的夢我知道
不要哭讓螢火蟲帶著你逃跑 鄉間的歌謠永遠的依靠
童年的紙飛機 現在終於飛回我手裡

所謂的那快樂 赤腳在田裡追蜻蜓追到累了
偷摘水果被蜜蜂給叮到怕了 誰在偷笑呢
我靠著稻草人吹著風唱著歌睡著了
哦 哦 午後吉他在蟲鳴中更清脆
哦 哦 陽光灑在路上就不怕心碎
珍惜一切 就算沒有擁有

還記得你說家是唯一的城堡 隨著稻香河流繼續奔跑
微微笑 小時候的夢我知道

不要哭讓螢火蟲帶著你逃跑 鄉間的歌謠永遠的依靠
回家吧 回到最初的美好

2008年9月23日

love whithin all my life

白天/晚上

對我來說不過只是白跟黑的分別

我的朋友,都讓我覺得有很多愛

我自己辦公室的姐姐們

靜宜 米玉 乃華 琇雲

每個都讓我又愛也覺得各各都很可愛

靜宜 米玉 看到我 總是會先跟我來個大小眼

然後偷偷露出嘴角的笑容

乃華 是很特別的姐姐

我倆有時會偷偷躲在旁邊討論我們自己的小祕密 哈哈

至於琇雲,這個激情的女人,是我世新的學姊

雖然她畢業時,我也才剛踏進大一

但對她總是有種敬畏三分的尊重

有時對她也有點小鬼的臭味,態度有時鳥鳥的

希望她也知道,我也還是很愛她的

跟大家每天都有很好的相處內容

我喜歡被當作笑點

假如我能讓大家覺得很有樂趣,我也非常樂在其中

還有,忘記提到我的好朋友,stanley

真要是沒有他,我怎麼度過一個單獨男人的工作生活

每天中午,我倆必定會相邀,吃飯買茶跟小晃一下校園附近

這是一種鮮少的兄弟之愛,我唯一記得有這樣的生活,感覺就像是在軍中

這位仁兄我打從心底,算是很認可他的態度

下班後,剛好得知,久未見面的annie在mos burger,等著要交清大學生法文

我腦袋一個突然

大開了一個可愛的玩笑

喬裝一位不認識的陌生人

走進桌邊,裝作不認識我這位朋友的說

"小姐,不好意思,那邊有位先生

對,低頭那位,他說他想認識妳,

並請我給妳這張紙條跟這個美味的巧克力

"他"希望妳會繼續認真教導法文,並祝你有個快樂的夜晚"

哈哈

我真是達人

在這之前,我是先回到辦公室一下下

遇到仍再辛苦加班的蓉蓉

今天和蓉蓉開了一個小會議

竟然我的笨拙,加上口齒不俐落

被她擔心,我是不是因為再和她討論新專案的時候,被惹怒了

怎麼可能,我喜歡的就是挑戰網站技術的感覺

我會好好努力的



今天,剛好也被叫了"大叔"這外號

我想我落落長的寫完了今天一整天的生活

我感覺到很多很多愛

剛好也有點呼應到"大叔"這外號吧


老了,就開始在那邊亂想

it's within in my life i know

晚上喝杯綠茶,聽著新下載的樹里

怎麼一切其實也很簡單

好好對人,一切是及不得的!!

點給自己

you can't hurry love

歌詞

I need love, love
Ooh, ease my mind
And I need to find time
Someone to call mine;

My mama said
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
But its a game of give and take
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes

How many heartaches must I stand
Before I find the love to let me live again
Right now the only thing that keeps me hanging on
When I feel my strength, ooh, its almost gone

I remember mama said
You cant hurry love
No youll just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Its a game of give and take
How long must I wait
How muck more must I take
Before loneliness
Will cause my heart, heart to break

No, I cant bear to live my life alone
I grow impatient for a love to call my own
But when I feel that i, I cant go on
Well these precious words keep me hanging on

I remember mama said
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Well, its a game of give and take
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes, now break!

Now love, love dont come easy
But I keep on waiting
Anticipating for that soft voice
To talk to me at night
For some tender arms
Hold me tight
I keep waiting
Ooh, till that day
But it aint easy (love dont come easy)
No, you know it aint easy

My mama said
You cant hurry love
No, youll just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Its a game of give and take...

2008年9月22日

A Farewell to Yankee Stadium

















走過八十五年歲月的紐約洋基球場

今晚主場最後一場比賽

果然畫下完美句點

紐約洋基隊贏了巴爾的摩金鶯隊

賽後

隊長jeter發表臨別感言



率全體隊員繞場一週

接受數萬名球迷起立熱情的高呼與致敬

看完全場重播比賽的我

真是非常有感觸

運動影響人類的層面真是不得不說非常的廣

我已不記得我是哪時開始被"洋基"這兩個字所吸引

當然,這是一種品牌效應,洋基等於公牛隊等於吸引力跟注意力

大概是1996年開始

我記得我已經再看洋基隊的比賽

David Cone,Bernie Williams,Andy Pettitte

這三個名字是我最早在當年world series中所唯一認識的

雖然洋基也不是明天就消失了

但我想對紐約人來說

一個已陪伴她們85年的球場

絕對是充滿了無限的回憶吧

我找到了段不錯的洋基影片

我也像洋基老球場致個意~~

脫帽~~~謝謝 old yankee stadium


2008年9月21日

Oh, I can't believe it

今天是禮拜天了

昨天和我媽去costco因為要消耗金幣,腦中仍記得狂殺15000的感覺真的很爽

以下是我的購物清單

直條紋襯衫x2

timberland帆船鞋x1

timberland毛襪x3

nautica卡其長褲x1

ashworth藍色卡其長褲x1

calvin klein棒球長Tx1

還在眼鏡部門配了一副黑色很有氣質的新眼鏡

眼鏡要晚一點,或許這禮拜哪天下班就開去拿

真是很久沒帶過黑細框...換個style



















總之,一切要謝謝我媽,

所以,就在剛剛上午,洗好擦好我的寶貝車 accord k9

到處都很亮

這樣開車出去,或是明天開上班,心情也都不賴

這樣過過假日真是很簡單

明天又要開始上班了

希望這週也一切順利

至於這首新歌

t-pain 跟 lil wayne 又合作了

反正他們就是到處幫別人唱,不是合唱就是背後操刀

這首歌叫做can't believe it

我覺得我跟男黑人的歌詞常常有個共鳴

也像ashly說...我已是老男人的靈魂活在年輕的肉體

對於女孩子或是女友,男人給女孩我們認為她們想要的

也或許那是否只能被叫作物質

但是我們的確是會好好讓女友或是女孩子 

怕冷就開暖氣給你吹 覺得熱就開冷氣給你吹

但怎麼跟某些黑人男歌詞寫的一樣

just can't believe it  ?!

或許這也不見得都是單方面的問題

總之黑人就愛寫這種歌詞

have always been able to take care of everything

嗯...就寫到這吧,畢竟我算是rookie blogger 






歌詞

she make me feel so good better than i would by myself or if was with somebody else)
(you don't under stand she make the people say yeah,yeah)


I can put you in the log cabin, somewhere in aspen
Girl ain't nothing to the pain aint trickin if you got it what you askin....for
Put you in the mansion, somewhere in wiscansin (wisconsin)
Like i said ain't nothin to the pain we can change that last name whats happnin?
Cause you look so good
Tell me why you wanna work here? I put you on the front page of a king magazine, but you gon get yourself hurt here
Eh, baby i brought you in the back just to have a conversation
Really think you need some venalation
Lets talk about youuuuuuu & meeeeeee


Oh, I can't believe it
OO OO she all on me (on me)
Man Man i think she want me (want me)
Nah I can't leave her lonely, naw
(x2)
And you don't understand she make the people say yeahhh, yeahhh, yeahhh
She hit the main stage she make the people say yeahhh(yeah), yeahhh(yeah), yeahhh



I could put you in the condo
All the way up in Toronto
Baby put you in the furcoat, ridin the Murciélago
I put you in the beach house
right on the edge of Costa Rica
Put one of em lil flowers in your hair have you looking like a fly mamacita
(fuego)
Cuz you look so good
You make me wanna spend it all on ya
Get up out this club
slide witcha' ya boy
We can do what you wanna, Yeah
baby i brought you in the back cuz you need a lil persuasion,
plus you need a lil ventalation
let's talk about youuuuuu and meeeeeeee

Oh I can't believe it
OO OO she all on me (on me)
Man Man i think she want me (want me)
Nah i can't leave her lonley, naw
(x2)
And you don't understand she make the people say yeahhh, yeahhh, yeahhh
She hit the main stage she make the people say yeahhh,(she make the people say) yeahhh,(she make the people say) yeahhh(T-Wayne),

[Lil Wayne]
Now i can put your ass out, ohhh
keep running your mouth
And if yo brothers come trippin ima show em wat dese teardrops bout
Shawty i was just playing
ohh but i can take you to the caymen...islands
have you screaminn and hollerin
we gone be making... Love on the beach
the people see what we doin
Awww they pointin and oooo'in
ohh but we gone keep on doing....it
Like its just me and you and no one else around
it went down on the balcony,
and her legs are open how sweet,
Shawty like a model out da Penthouse Sheets,
Thats why i got her on my Penthouse Sheets.


Oh I can't believe it
OO OO she all on me(on me)
Man Man i think she want me
Nah i can't leave her lonley naw
(x2)
And you don't understand she make the people say yeahhh, (she make the people say) yeahhh, (she make the people say) yeahhh
She hit the main stage she make the people say yeahhh,yeahhh, yeahhh,

2008年9月20日

why can't i turn off the radio ???

嗯...停在9月19號的這個路口



















想想

其實我走過的路,老天爺對我真的很好,我走得很平順

三個月來,在這裡遇到好多好朋友,清華的每個同事人都非常讓我覺得驕傲也值得佩服


外表,我瘦了10公斤

個性,我希望能讓大家知道我是想虛心學每件事的

工作,我希望能有機會開發更多資訊平台

感情,我還是很多想法,希望好,希望要等等,希望來個順其自然


對於下個工作,我知道我只要努力,我就可以寫出好的系統

對於下個春天,我知道我仍會讓自己與某個人可以一同開花結果

對於下個朋友,我知道我會和他繼續一百分來一百分去


在這之前,就靠自己要替自己打理更多自己的事務

下一位 ! 期待中 !

點首ne yo 的 so sick

這段時間,就讓我 

So sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can't I turn off the radio?




歌詞

Mmmm mmm yeah
Do do do do do do do-do
Ohh Yeah

Gotta change my answering machine
Now that I'm alone
Cuz right now it says that we
Can't come to the phone
And I know it makes no sense
Cuz you walked out the door
But it's the only way I hear your voice anymore
(it's ridiculous)
It's been months
And for some reason I just
(can't get over us)
And I'm stronger than this
(enough is enough)
No more walkin round
With my head down
I'm so over being blue
Cryin over you

And I'm so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can't I turn off the radio?

Gotta fix that calender I have
That's marked July 15th
Because since there's no more you
There's no more anniversary
I'm so fed up with my thoughts of you
And your memory
And how every song reminds me
Of what used to be

That's the reason I'm so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can't I turn off the radio?

(Leave me alone)
Leave me alone
(Stupid love songs)
Dont make me think about her smile
Or having my first child
I'm letting go
Turning off the radio

Cuz I'm so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing she was still here
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can't I turn off the radio?
(why can't I turn off the radio?)

Said I'm so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing she was still here
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can't I turn off the radio?
(why can't I turn off the radio?)

And I'm so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishin' you were still here
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow
Why can't I turn off the radio?
(why can't I turn off the radio?)
Why can't I turn off the radio?

2008年9月17日

真有感觸 ... Good Things Don't Last Forever

























Rich Boy - Good Things

歌詞

Good Things Don't Last Forever Baby
Something Bout You Gurl That Drives Me Crazy
Ain't No Ifs And Buts Or Maybes
You'll Always Be My Friend

You Will Always Be
You Will Always Be
Say You'll Always Be
My Friend

She Want To Know What The Reason I'm Saying She Can Be My Friend
But Baby I'ma Player Ain't No Reason To Protend
Might Have Seen me in MIA ridin phantom of the benz
with a beautiful bitch her hair blowin in the wind
(see i'm true to this shit) Hope that you can comprehend
what i'm spittin is pimpin and the rules don't bend
yea you lookin good but yo mind ain't right
sumthin niggas been tellin ya, ya fine alright
gotta see need to let me put this iron in yo life
not the the bruse from behind
from the side how you like that
i don't wanna spend forever with cha baby just tonight
if you could hop in my back seat that'a be'a delight
from the looks of that ass u a nigga type
if u could bring me some cash, baby you misses right
you say u got a man and u don't know if this is right
this when i need to be like


Good Things Don't Last Forever Baby
Something Bout You Gurl That Drives Me Crazy
Ain't No Ifs, Ands, Buts Or Maybes
You'll Always Be My Friend

You Will Always Be
You Will Always Be
Say You'll Always Be
My Friend

You The Only Gurl I Wanna See Daily
Not Alot Hoes Shady Me But You Could Be My Lady
Lets Take It To Another Level You Remember
The First Day I Gotcha What You Want And
It Wasn't Even Your Birthday Nah Now
We Kick It To Hard You Went To Deep
Say You Feel It In Your Heart So
I'm Be Real Cause You Give Me What I Want
And I Ain't Gonna Tell You I Love You If I Don't
I Understand You Got A Man At The Crib
But He Don't Even care or Understand How You Feel
But If You Stop Coming Around
And I Don't See You Again I Guess We Can
Just Be...Woooo

Good Things Don't Last Forever Baby
Something Bout You Gurl That Drives Me Crazy
Ain't No Ifs And Buts Or Maybes
You'll Always Be My Friend

You Will Always Be
You Will Always Be
Say You'll Always Be
My Friend

Now Ladies I know yA'll Know What I'm Talking About
See I Don't Want A Man That Will Be Dipping
In And Out Of My Life I Want Friend Thats gone Be
There through Thick And Thin You Know What I'm Saying
Someone To Take It Back To The Isleys
I Want Somebody To Always Run Back To Me
And Trust I'll Always Be Here With *That Good Thang*

If I Coudln't Walk Again Would You
Still Be There For Me If I Lost It All Today
Would Yea Care For Me Yea Would You Write Me
In The Pen Kinda Of Friend That Will Be There
Without The Benz Like I ain't ya from the bull God sent me
You Never Ask About The Money That You
Leant Me Nah You Look Good With Your
Body Your The Type Of Gurl That Money
Can't Buy Me

Good Things Don't Last Forever Baby
Something Bout You Gurl That Drives Me Crazy
Ain't No Ifs And Buts Or Maybes
You'll Always Be My Friend

You Will Always Be
You Will Always Be
Say You'll Always Be
My Friend